I won’t call it your duty, but at the same time, it lies on you to ensure your man never wished he was in the arms of another woman.

In fact, when he starts having those thoughts and imagination, you’re already losing your man to another woman with equal capability as you; the only difference is you’re not exercising those capabilities you’ve got.

You won’t be happy when that happens, will you?

Of course not!

To that end, we shall look at a few insights on how to keep a man. And it is not even as difficult – just a few little things here and there that men find quite romantic and can’t get enough of and you’ll keep him for a lifetime.

What are those things?

1. This weighs more than a pretty face

Men are relatively more objective with their decisions. In other words, their actions are based on what they can see. Thus, it matters what he sees.

A pretty face is attractive, no doubt. We love pretty ladies. But that in the short term. It is a different ball game when it comes to the things men look out for in long terms relationships like marriage. In that situation, a pretty face takes a back seat. Why? He doesn’t just want anyone but a homemaker. The question in his mind is, “Can she keep a home clean and neat? Or will she turn it into a mess?”

Even though a pretty face draws men emotionally, when it comes to something as serious as getting married, cleanliness comes high on his priority list than a pretty face.

• Make an effort to look neat and clean. Have a good air around you. Make your presence and absence felt by leaving the touch of a skilled homemaker. He’ll never imagine a home without you.

2. He’ll go any mile for this

I met a certain lady a few years ago.

We lived in the same apartment.

With time we started having feelings for each other.

But there was a problem. Her parent’s church doesn’t allow “outsiders” to marry from their congregation. We knew dating would cause more harm than good. So we settled for a casual relationship.

One day, we made out for the first time.
Every aspect of it was ecstatic! Her kiss alone was the best I have got to date. Words fail me to describe the rest! In short, she was a pro in bed.

Our fling lasted for about 2 months.

But it is the clearest and most memorable of my sexual experience till date. It was an unforgettable experience.

It is over three years.

I still remember every detail of our romantic story. The number of times we made out, the venue for each, the clothes we were on, the time of the day… I remember clearly.

Here is the truth:

As far as men are concerned, a great sex is memorable and a great delight!

• Bedroom skillfulness matters.
  The more bedrooms skills you have, the better. Men can’t get enough of good sex. So work on every aspect of the circus. And then delight him. He’ll keep wanting and wanting.

3. This makes you irreplaceable

Men have a lot to deal with.
A lot of burden on their shoulders.
Being independent and fending for himself alone is a big deal. I knew this firsthand when I lost my Dad and I had to fend for myself. It wasn’t easy. The worst part is, as far as you are a man, everyone expects you to survive.

It takes a lot. A whole lot.

Most times, we just need someone to talk to, some encouragement, some support, some assistance… unfortunately most often than not we don’t get these. But we have no option but to encourage ourselves with hope and keep grinding day in day out.

It is a big deal to be independent as a man. A bigger deal when you are in a romantic relationship. And here’s the truth: it takes a lot to maintain a woman and keep the relationship running. Most of that input comes from the man.

That is why being a supportive lady makes you irreplaceable. Nothing feels better than having someone with whom he can share his burden. Nothing compares to it.

• Be more than a lover; be a real partner. Make his burden lighter. Look for areas of his life where you can offer some assistance and support. Render your support. Let him feel relieved because he has you. You’ll be irreplaceable.

Final word,

It doesn’t take much to please a man

Really put these insights to work.
And see what happens. I bet you, he will never imagine a future without you, he’ll do everything within his power to keep you.