RELATIONSHIP

8 Ways to Tell Her You Like Her (and 9 Ways Not to!)

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6 years ago

August 14, 2019

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1. Have Some Balls and Be Direct

This is your LAST OPTION. If she’s stubborn, dumb, or she’s not seeing the hints, telling her straight to her face might get her attention.

Again, THIS IS THE RISKIEST OPTION and that’s why it should be saved for a hail mary or a rainy day. Telling her you like her straight to her face can be way too much for her, it gives your power away, and it gives her the power to reject you on the spot. You don’t want her having that power over you.

If she asks if you like her, then yes – be direct, keep it short, and don’t emotional and girly about it – it’s not a free pass to pour your heart out.

The next 8 ways to tell her you like her help you keep your power to yourself and give her less power to reject you and stomp your heart to pieces.

2. Spend Time With Her

It’s pretty obvious you like her if you’re spending time and hanging out WITH HER – especially if your time is very important to you.

The more you seem to enjoy her company and being around her, the more it tells her you like her – without you needing to open your mouth and tell her.

3. Be Playful

high fiving her being playful

When you complement her too much and put her on a pedestal, you’re communicating, “I don’t believe I’m good enough for you and I wish and hope you’ll give me a chance…” This makes her feel repulsed instead of “drawn” to you.

But, when you’re interacting with her in a lighthearted, playful, and fun manner, you’re not communicating you think she’s better than you or you don’t have a chance with her. You’re saying, “I like you, I think you’re cool, and I want to have fun with you.”

4. Tease Her

Teasing her, without being a jerk, cuts straight through the nonsense, tells her you like her, and increase the chances of her liking you back.

Teasing her tells her you like her, she’s worth your time and attention, and she doesn’t intimidate you.

If she senses you’re intimidated by her, she unconsciously places you in the friend zone with the other guys who don’t have a chance with her.

Teasing her, giving her a hard time, and getting a rise out of her, in a fun and playful manner, communicate you’re interested in her and see her as more than a friend.

5. Flirt With Her

Rather than announcing it, flirting is the most obvious way to tell her you like her. It pounds all of her “attraction buttons” and helps you get closer to pounding HER “button”.

What To Do When Flirting: