8 Ways to Tell Her You Like Her (and 9 Ways Not to!)

Show her you’re different and worth her time by taking the lead.

• Choose the time and day you’re going out, where you’re going, and where you’re sitting
• Pick the movie you’re watching
• Grab her hand and pull her through a crowd
• Physically move her if you need to
• Say things like, “Let’s go here”, “Let’s do this”, “Come here”, “We gotta go”, “I’ve heard this place is great, let’s eat here”, “I don’t feel like going there”, “I don’t feel like doing that”, etc.

Don’t say things like, “Where do you want to go?”, “I want to take you to your favorite movie/restaurant/bar”, “Is it OK if I grab your hand? We have to move”, “Do you feel like going to…?”, etc.

See the difference?

Be casual, indifferent, and cool about taking the lead and she’ll be cool with it and like it.

Women love when you lead the way and they’re just following.

In fact, most women prefer you to lead.

7. Get Physical

Let her know you like her by not being afraid to grab her hand, kiss her, touch her, etc.

Communicate you’re interested by holding her hand just a second too long when you meet her or see her.

Touching is by far the fastest and most powerful way to build comfort and rapport with her.

Touching connects two people faster than talking, body language, and visual elements.

If you’re not afraid to communicate with her on a physical level, she’ll know you like her and it’ll spark the attraction you’re wanting.

8. Don’t Do What ALL the Other Guys Would Do

Last, show her you like her and get her attention by not making the same lame, predictable, and boring rookie mistakes as the other guys trying to get her attention.

She doesn’t want you to:

• Buy flowers
• Write her letters
• Chase her airplane at the airport
• Stand outside her door or window in the pouring rain
• Ask her on a date on the radio

Learning how women think and respond and what they’re attracted to makes you different and “better” in her eyes.

Do the opposite of what most guys would do. Stand out. Capture her attention.

Ways NOT to Tell Her You Like Her