RELATIONSHIP
8 Ways to Tell Her You Like Her (and 9 Ways Not to!)
We often make the next 9 mistakes when we don’t have enough experience with women, we don’t understand how attraction works, we’re clouded by our emotions, or were in a hurry tell her how we feel. These things put you in a very bad spot with her and it’s hard to recover from it.
1. Blindsiding Her
When you don’t haven’t build rapport or a history with her, don’t show up out of the blue and say, “Hey I’m So and So and I really like you!”
If you interact with her a lot, she’ll be surprised, but not completely blindsided. If she doesn’t know you at all, it’ll come off as awkward and desperate.
2. Giving Her Money or Paying Her Bills
Using money communicates, “You can use me for money because I have low standards, I’m desperate, needy, and I want you no matter what it takes.” This mindset DOES NOT win her over and cause her to feel attraction for you.
Never give her money in order to gain approval or be her hero. Never pay her bills to “save her”.
Instead of her thinking you’re her “hero”, she’ll think you’re a tool and a pushover.
If she knows she can use you, then you can forget ever being with her.
3. Buying Flowers and Gifts
Flowers and gifts tell her you like her, but it also tells her you’re friend zone material.
If you want her to like you back, YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTION.
Buying flowers that she can sniff and some chocolates that will give her pimples does not spark the uncontrollable attraction you’re looking for. Leave the gift giving to the guys who want to be friend-zoned.
