Veteran Nollywood Actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, known not only for her groundbreaking roles in film but also for her enduring marriage to Captain Matthew Ekeinde, recently gave fans a rare glimpse into the inner workings of her nearly three-decade-long relationship.
In a conversation on ChudeJideonwo’s live podcast, the screen icon revealed the highs, lows, and faith-driven principles that have helped her sustain a healthy marriage since 1996.
Omotola didn’t sugarcoat the experience. She admitted that even in a loving marriage, there are tough days.
“There are times when I look at him and I’m not in love. I go to God and report him,” she said with a mix of sincerity and humor.
“I honor him not because I’m head over heels in love at that moment, but because I honor the One who gave me the mandate to be with him.”
Her honesty struck a chord, acknowledging that every marriage experiences moments of doubt, fatigue, and emotional distance.
“There are times I look at him and think, ‘Somebody please remind me why I married this man.’ And he probably feels the same way about me. Those days come.”
In a world obsessed with perfect images of love and success, Omotola urges couples to embrace their humanity.
“I think the problem is people trying to be fake. Relax—it’s not that serious. Remember you’re a human being.”
She also joked about being attracted to other men, adding a dose of realism that few public figures dare to share:
“There are times I see guys who look ‘fantabulous’ and I say, ‘Oh child!’ But you check yourself.”
At the core of her marital philosophy is spirituality. Omotola emphasizes that choosing a partner with shared faith is key.
“From the onset, when you’re meeting someone, make sure you have God. Pray that you meet the right person.”
This belief has shaped how she deals with conflict and hardship, turning to prayer, reflection, and spiritual discipline rather than rash decisions.
Omotola likens marriage to flying a plane—with her husband as the pilot and herself as a trusted co-pilot.
