Mistake #3: Not Standing Up For Yourself
Not standing up for yourself can cause a woman to quickly lose respect for you. It shows her you are willing to compromise your values in order to gain her approval and get on her “good side.”
When you become the ‘puppy-dog-pleaser-boyfriend’ to your woman, the faster she runs from you. Most times, lots of guys can’t come to terms as to why their ladies desperately want to break up with them after doing all that they can to make them happy.
But when you become the overly-accommodating and submissive boyfriend, what happens is either: Your girlfriend loses all attraction and leaves you or your girlfriend becomes increasingly controlling, domineering, and very neurotic
Not Standing Up For Yourself includes…things like…
- Accepting second class treatment from her,
- Not leading and saying what you want to do,
- Not expressing your opinion in fear that she will harshly criticize you for it and make you feel bad and Walking on eggshells and watching what you say to avoid triggering her.
- Being afraid to walk away because you feel she’s the only thing you have and the thought of walking away scares you.
Have you done any of the above? I hope not.
All it does is make you look weak and less of a man and makes your girlfriend lose respect for you. And when she loses respect for you…IT’S ALL OVER.
Because when a woman loses respect for you, it’s IMPOSSIBLE for her to love you. And if you don’t want your girlfriend to lose respect for you… it’s CRITICAL that you avoid my next point.
