Mistake #4: Letting Her Lead and Becoming a “Follower”
Men try to get women to lead. And they aren’t even aware of it when they do it.
They tell their girlfriends “What would you like to do honey? Where would you like me to take you? What’s your favorite restaurant? Can I take you there?
“Then the woman says… “Oh whatever you want to do is fine” And the man goes “No really, what’s your favorite restaurant, I really want to do what you want to do!
Men often try to follow a woman who doesn’t want to lead, and when she doesn’t lead, the man tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seeks approval.
Most men orient themselves by following and seeking approval of the woman. She leads, they follow… in fact, she isn’t even leading, but they TRY to follow. They try to make her lead. This is a HORRIBLE mistake!
It’s also one of the sneakiest relationship mistakes that make your girlfriend leave you. A relationship with “chemistry” has what’s called masculine-feminine polarity. But when you get into the habit of letting the woman lead, you ruin that chemistry Puh- lease!!!!!!! She becomes the “leader”- taking on the “masculine” role – and you become her “follower”- taking on the “feminine role.”
This causes the relationship to become DEPOLARIZED, and the woman quickly loses attraction.
She feels that something is “off” and she has no way of explaining why she no longer feels attracted to you.
TO BE CONTINUED……………
by Emmanuel Osei Akoto | Godly Marriage Clinic – GMC
