Mistake #8: Not Understanding How Attraction Works
It’s important to understand exactly how a woman gets feelings for you. There is a huge misconception on how this process happens… and it’s messing up the relationships of a lot of men. Buying her gifts and being overly romantic doesn’t make her get feelings…Falling way too hard for her doesn’t make her get feelings…Showing her you care doesn’t make her get feelings…
All of these things are nice to do when she is ALREADY attracted to you in a relationship… but they only HIGHLIGHT the attraction that already exists. They are the “whipped cream” to top the latter. But the latter is what matters! Triggering attraction is what causes her to fall in love with you in the first place! As a man… the most important skill you will ever discover is how to create attraction with a girl you like. This is something most men NEVER learn how to do… and as a result, they spend most of their lives feeling frustrated that they can’t attract the kind of woman that they want.
by Emmanuel Osei Akoto | Godly Marriage Clinic – GMC
